较真与看淡,这两者似乎针锋相对、互相矛盾。有人说世上只怕认真二字,也有人认为凡事不必太过在意。其实,一定要在两者中择其一作为人生信条并无道理,不如因人因事,具体问题具体分析。为人中,较真自己如何待人,看淡他人如何待己。认真待人,体现的是自己的真诚;看淡待己,显露的是大度的胸怀。子曰:“君子不失色于人,不失言于人。”要想做到交往的时候彬彬有礼、措辞恳切,那 More real and bearish, these two seem diametrically opposed, contradictory. Some people say that the world is only afraid of serious words, while others think everything should not be too concerned. In fact, it is unreasonable to choose one of the two as a credo of life. It is better to give a concrete analysis of specific issues concerning people and things. As a man, how to deal with others more seriously, how others treat others. Seriously treat people, reflecting their own sincerity; look down on others, revealed a generous mind. Son said: “gentleman does not lose color in people, without losing his word.” "In order to be polite, sincere words, that