养育的资源来自方方面面,有家庭,有父母,还有图书、师长、朋友……有正面的,也有负面的。田纳西·威廉斯是美国一位很有成就的剧作家,他在一篇自传里这样写道:“我从母亲身上学到爱和忍耐,从父亲身上感受到仇恨与自私。没有父亲的酗酒’对母亲的虐打.我没法在剧本上把那沉重的无奈.无助及绝望困境表达出来. The resources for parenting come from all quarters. There are families, parents, books, teachers and friends ... there are positive as well as negative ones. Tennessee Williams, a highly accomplished playwright in the United States, wrote in an autobiography: ”I learned love and patience from my mother, from my father I felt hate and selfishness. ’Abusive to my mother, I can not express my heavy helplessness in the script.