培养独立能力孩子从襁褓时期就跟妈妈分床睡觉,二三岁的幼儿就住自己的房间。父母只管孩子的安全,其他生活上的事、游玩、学习,都由孩子自理、自主、自我选择。父母决不替孩子多做什么事,最多从旁提醒、参谋。参与家事决策美国孩子在家里的确是小主人,不但参与家庭的各种活动,还参与家庭大事的决策。一个孩子的父亲说:“给孩子发表意见的权利和机会很重 Children develop their independence ability to go to bed with their mum when they are young. Twenty-three-year-olds live in their own rooms. Parents only child safety, other things in life, play, study, by the children themselves, autonomy, self-selection. Parents never do anything more for their children, most reminded from the staff. Participation in Family Decisions American children are indeed small masters at home not only participating in family activities but also in making decisions about family affairs. A child’s father said: "The right to express opinions and children’s opportunities are very heavy