我非常高兴地收到了著名作家林斤澜先生为“家教话题”写的文章。这篇短文以荧屏所见的儿童形像为切入点,用幽默的笔法描述了家庭教育中一个较为突出的问题,即家长在“为了你好”的口头禅掩盖下,给孩子带来无穷无尽的苦恼。望子成龙的愿望是美好的,但实际效果往往是适得其反的。我们在林斤澜先生的字里行间,听到了一个真诚的忠告:为人父母,应该懂得怎样尊重孩子的意愿。作家的思考是耐人寻味的。欢迎家长朋友们来信谈谈你们的想法。 I am very pleased to have received the article written by Lin Jinlan, a famous writer, as a topic of “tutoring.” This short essay uses the children’s image seen on the screen as a starting point to describe in a humorous way one of the more prominent problems in family education: that parents are brought to their children endlessly under the cover of “hello” mantra distressed. The aspiration to build a cousin is wonderful, but the actual effect is often counterproductive. In the words of Mr. Lin Jinlan, we heard a sincere advice: parents, we should know how to respect the child’s wishes. The writer’s thinking is intriguing. Welcome parents and friends to write a letter to discuss your ideas.