礼貌是人们为了达到一定交际目的而使用的特殊语言手段,因而它是一种复杂的语用现象,在不同的语境中具有不同的表现形式和言语交际功能。本文拟以Verschuren顺应论中的交际语境顺应理论为框架,借助生活实例分析话语礼貌,旨在更深入地探索日常交际中礼貌的相对性实质,为言语礼貌的动态研究提供另一视角。 Politeness is a special language used by people in order to achieve a certain communicative purpose. Therefore, it is a complex pragmatic phenomenon with different forms of expression and verbal communication in different contexts. This essay is based on the communicative context adaptation theory in Verschuren’s Adaptation Theory, analyzes the discourse politeness by means of living examples, and aims to explore the relative substance of politeness in daily communication in a deeper way and provide another perspective for the dynamic study of speech politeness.