在幼儿的成长过程中,需要不停地进行自我建构,这些建构的过程有时需要外界的协助。在建构的过程中,一旦幼儿的情感受挫而得不到正确途径的宣泄,幼儿就会产生不同的反射动作,其中之一就是幼儿的恋物行为。恋物行为的发生预示着幼儿某方面的情感需求未得到满足,安全感的建立并未完善,此时教养者需要给予幼儿更多的关爱。 In the process of young children’s growth, self-construction needs to be carried out ceaselessly, and the process of these constructions sometimes needs external help. In the process of construction, young children will have different reflex actions once their feelings are frustrated and can not be released properly. One of them is the fetish behavior of young children. The occurrence of fetishism indicates that some aspects of children’s emotional needs have not been met, and the establishment of a sense of security is not perfect. At this moment, the educators need to give more care to young children.