父母经常要和孩子谈各种问题,怎样谈得情理交融,娓娓动听,使孩子心悦诚服,乐于接受,这是需要认真研究的。有个孩子因小事与同学争吵并发生了打架行为,父母就把他狠狠批评了一顿。这批评是正确的,谁知孩子却不以为然,反而与父母顶撞起来。原来这个孩子自以为有理,况且他在争斗中吃了亏,正在恼火之中。可见父母批评孩子即使有理,也还需要了解他们的心理状态,掌握“火候”,讲究批评艺术。 Parents often have to talk about various issues with their children. They talk about how to be harmonious and appealing. They should be convinced and willing to accept them. This requires careful study. A child quarreled with his classmates because of a trifle and had a fight, and his parents severely criticized him. This criticism is correct, but children do not think they will, but instead collide with their parents. It turned out that this child is self-righteous, Moreover, he suffered a loss in the battle, are annoyed. Visible parents even criticize children, but also need to understand their psychological state, master the “heat”, pay attention to critical art.