杭州一家长来信问:我的女儿上五年级。一二年级的时候她的成绩还不错,到三四年级的时候就开始走下坡路。现在,女儿对学习的好坏已经无所谓了,责备也好,好言相劝也好,就是“推”不动她。她似乎对自己的成绩以及对老师、家长的批评都无所谓。现在我们最着急的倒不是她的成绩,而是她的态度。不管是表扬还是批评,都无法触动她,真是急死人了! A parent from Hangzhou asked: My daughter is in fifth grade. She finished well in first and second grades and started to decline by grade three or four. Now, the daughter has no regard to the quality of learning, blame Ye Hao, a good exhortation Ye Hao, is “push ” does not move her. She seems indifferent to her grades and her criticism of teachers and parents. Now our most anxious is not her grades, but her attitude. No matter praise or criticism, can not touch her, really urgent dead!