女儿一周岁多,正是咿呀学语的阶段,要求也越来越多。她经常用小手指着想要的东西说:“嗯!”意思很明确,要大人帮着去取。大人给她取来,她立即喜笑颜开,不然,她就执拗地去拿,甚至大哭大闹。作为家长,这种情况经常遇到。如果我们不管其要求是否正当就予以满足,会养成小孩子百依百顺的性格:而如果我们用武力或粗暴的方式对待小孩子的无理要求,就会挫伤小孩子的勇气和自信,不利于他们的健康成长。如何拒绝幼 Daughter more than a year old, it is Baba learn stage, the requirements are more and more. She often used her little finger to say what she wanted: “Um!” The meaning is clear, to help adults to take. An adult gave her, she immediately smiled, or she stubbornly to get, or even crying. As a parent, this situation is often encountered. If we do not care whether our demands are legitimate or not, we will develop the child’s obedient character: if we force or rudely deal with the unreasonable demands of our children, we will dampen the courage and self-confidence of our children, not Conducive to their healthy growth. How to reject young