为数众多的中青年父母,由于种种因素无暇照管孩子,把孩子托付给爷爷奶奶或姥爷姥姥,形成了一个又一个隔代家庭。从表面上看,父母们一心一意忙自己的事情,让赋闲在家的老人们承担起照顾、教育孩子的责任,似乎是一件两全其美、皆大欢喜的事。可细究起来,却并非如此。南方某市一中学最近对本校初中二年级300名学生进行的问卷调 A large number of young and middle-aged parents, due to various factors have no time to take care of children, the children entrusted to the grandparents or grandpa, forming a generation after generation of families. On the surface, it seems that parents are bent on helping their own affairs and letting the elderly who are idle at home take on the responsibility of taking care of and educating their children seems to be a thing that enjoys the best of both worlds and is joyful. It can be fine to study, but not so. A middle school in a city in southern China recently conducted a questionnaire survey of 300 students in the second grade of their junior high school