女儿亲密的母女关系有利于发展女儿的亲密感和感受性,使她感受到更多的社会支持和友谊。女儿的确需要建立独立、的自我,但这种自我是在日益复杂的关系中,特别是与母亲的关系中实现的。首先,为了保持健康的母女关系,母亲需要清楚地了解自己。我们在自己的母亲面前是谁?在丈夫或生活伴侣面前是谁……在老板面前?同事面前?在朋友面前以及在女儿面前,在纠缠不清的许多生活情景中,我们分别扮演着什么样的角色?知道自己在关系中所扮演的角色,可以使母亲清楚地了解自己与女儿 Daughter’s close mother-daughter relationship is conducive to the development of her daughter’s intimacy and sensibility, making her feel more social support and friendship. Daughters do need to establish an independent ego, but such self is achieved in increasingly complex relationships, especially with her mother. First, in order to maintain a healthy mother-daughter relationship, mothers need to be clear about themselves. Who are we in front of our own mothers, who are in front of our husbands or living partners, in front of our boss, in front of my colleagues, in front of my friends and in front of my daughters, in many tangled life scenarios, Know your role in the relationship, can make the mother clearly understand themselves and daughter