同事告诉我,她的姨姨刚过世,我奇怪从没察觉她表现伤心,她说:“是癌症,全家人早有心理准备。”心理准备,也许是天下最强的装备,勇气的源头。早知道某些事情必然发生,预先设想下一步和再下一步,到事情真正发生的时候,就不会阵脚大乱。冷静地应付,总能过渡。有很多情况,其实并不是怕,只是有点乱。有人连蟑螂都怕,有人天不怕地不怕,最勇敢和最胆怯,都是一种心理状况。我常常想,恐怖分子在行动那天,如何以大脑操控双脚,踏出家门,一步一步迈向死亡?走到最后那一步,到底怎么说服自己完成? My colleague told me that her aunt had just passed away. I was surprised that she never showed any sadness. She said: “It is cancer and the whole family is mentally prepared.” Mental preparation may be the strongest equipment in the world, courageous source. I already knew that certain things must happen. It is important to anticipate the next step and take the next step. When things really happen, they will not be in chaos. Calmly cope, always able to transition. There are many situations, in fact, not afraid, just a bit chaotic. Some people even afraid of cockroaches, some fearless, the most courageous and the most timid, are a psychological condition. I often wonder how the terrorists manipulated their feet with their brains and stepped out of their houses step by step toward death on the day they were in action. How did they persuade themselves to finish in the final step?