从心理咨询机构和一些父母那里,我们发现了一个不容忽视的问题:孩子们虽志向很高,但在成长过程中却因控制不好自己而发生很多偏差,在事业上,在感情上……就如何培养孩子自控能力这一问题,我们请两位心理学专业人士从不同角度提出自己的见解,以解除家长的困惑。 From the counseling agencies and some parents, we found a problem that can not be ignored: children aspire to high, but in the process of growth but because of poor control of their own a lot of deviations, in business, emotionally ...... As to how to cultivate children’s self-control ability, we asked two psychologists to put forward their own opinions from different perspectives so as to relieve parents’ confusion.