坐在我对面的这位父亲,眼里流露出忧郁、恳切的目光,一股脑儿提出了好几个问题:“我过去哪儿做得不对?究竟该如何教育孩子?……”原来,他的孩子误入了歧途,他正忍受着难言的痛苦,悔恨交加,痛恨自己没有做一位称职的父亲。那么,该如何回答这位家长的提问呢?从我做父亲的亲身经历中,从我多年对父子、母 The father sitting across from me showed melancholy and earnest eyes, and several questions raised by the brain: “Where did I go in the past? How to educate children? ...” Originally, his The child went astray, he was suffering unspeakable pain, remorse, hate himself not to be a competent father. So, how to answer this parent’s question? From my personal experience as a father, from my years of father and son, mother