“难得糊涂”是清代郑板桥不得志之语。而照新的观念,则是指一个人在非原则问题上不计较,在细小问题上不纠缠,对不便回答的问题可佯作不懂,对危害自身的询问假作不知,以理智的“糊涂”平息可能发生的矛盾。这在某种意义上说,可以解除许多心理压力,化干戈为玉帛,化不和为友情。有句格言:“雄辩是银,沉默是金。”意思是当别人情绪沸腾时,你表现沉默,心胸豁达,宽宏大度,这比黄金还可贵。所以,一个人不论遇到顺心或不顺心的事,都应保持头脑冷静,“心静则体安”。 “Hard to understand confused” is the inevitable passage of Zheng Banqiao Qing Dynasty. According to the new concept, it refers to a person on the non-principle issues do not care about the small issues do not tangle about inconvenient questions can be pretended to be ignorant of the harm to their own query leave do not know, with the rational “ Confused ”to quell possible conflicts. In a sense, this can relieve many psychological pressures and turn things into bliss and friendship. There is an adage: “Eloquence is silver, silence is gold.” The meaning is that when others are emotional, you are silent, open-minded and generous, which is more precious than gold. Therefore, a person should keep his mind calm and calm, regardless of whether he or she ever meets or falls in love with him.