业缘人际关系是指由共同的职业和事业结合而形成的一种人际关系,如同事之间关系、上下级关系等等。这种业缘人际关系是社会分工的产物,并随着信息时代社会分工程度的提高和人们的交往逐步扩大而日益发展。社会学研究表明,良好的业缘人际关系不仅能使人们尽快消除对人际环境、工作环境的陌生感,而且能使人工作顺心、生活愉快、保持心情舒畅和心理健康,同时能增进团结,加强友谊,促进集体事业的发展。大学毕业生走上工作岗位后,必然离不开社会,离不开社会交往,有一个健康良好的业缘人际关系是获得事业成功的重要保证。如果毕业生不善于交际,缺乏社交能力,则有可能人为地在自己与社会的发展、与周围环境之间筑起一道心理屏障,既妨碍了自身的全面发展,又妨碍了个人参与社会的发展。市场经济条件下,很多用人单位都把毕业生是否具备较强 Interpersonal relationship refers to a kind of interpersonal relationship formed by the combination of common occupation and career, such as the relationship between colleagues, the relationship between the superior and the inferior, and so on. This kind of interpersonal relationship is the product of social division of labor, and with the improvement of the social division of labor in the information age and the gradual expansion of people’s interaction and development. Sociological research shows that good interpersonal relationships not only make people as soon as possible to eliminate unfamiliar feelings on the interpersonal environment, work environment, but also make people work smoothly, happy life, to maintain ease of mind and mental health, while enhancing solidarity and strengthening Friendship, and promote the development of collective undertakings. After graduating from college, university graduates must be inseparable from the society and can not do without social interaction. Having a healthy, healthy interpersonal relationship is an important guarantee for their success. If graduates are not sociable and lack social skills, they may artificially create a psychological barrier between themselves and the development of society and the surrounding environment, which not only hinder their own overall development but also impede the individual’s participation in social development . Under the condition of market economy, many employers regard the graduates as strong