身受,才能感同。很多人都喜欢说:我能够理解你的感受。可是这句话,其实真的纯属安慰。你没有经历过我所经历的事,你没有受过我所受过的苦,你根本体会不到我的挣扎纠结,又怎么能懂得我内心最恐惧的恐惧,以及夜半惊醒时的恸哭?《红面具》中的57号,如果身在他的世界里,我肯定会疯掉。被设定的身份,被设定的故事,如果就连自以为的亲历感受都是骗人的,这个世界还 Perception, to feel the same. Many people like to say: I can understand your feelings. However, this sentence is actually really pure comfort. You have not experienced what I have experienced, you have not suffered the pain I have suffered, you simply can not understand my struggling tangled, how can I understand the fear of my heart, and the midnight awake cry? “Red Mask 57 ”, if in his world, I will certainly be crazy. The set identity, the story set, even if self-righteous experience is deceptive, this world also