现在越来越觉得,抱怨是一种撒娇。最初听到这种说法,是在大学一年级的冬天。两位老师来京办事,顺路来学校看我,其中一位是初中的班主任,温柔可亲,从前全班人都叫她“田田妈妈”。一见到她,我就兴奋不已地讲述新鲜的大学生活,不由自主地对学校的缺陷抱怨一通。另一位老师坐在旁边静静喝茶,等我发泄完了才从容地说:“我听出来了,你不是真心厌恶这个学校,而是在撒娇。你是把你的田老师当成 Now more and more feel that complaining is a spoiled. First heard this statement, is in the first year of university winter. The two teachers came to work in Beijing and went to school to see me on their way. One of them was a class teacher in a junior high school. She was tender and cuddly. All her former class called her ”mother Tian Tian“. When I saw her, I was very excited about the fresh college life, involuntarily complained about the flaws in the school. Another teacher sat quietly next to the tea, until I vent finished calmly said: ”I heard it, you do not really hate this school, but rather spoiled, you are your teacher Tian as