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美国1999年的《心理学:人类行为杂志》上刊登的一篇文章介绍了50位成功的父母教育子女的十条经验。我觉得很有借鉴的价值,在这里作一下简要介绍。一、充足的爱父母能够给予孩子的最有价值的礼物就是“爱”——慷慨和无私的爱。我们应尽可能多地让孩子感受到我们爱他。无论孩子犯了怎样严重的错误,妈妈都要对孩子有一颗宽容的心。有一些不好的话语,在批评孩子时最好不要使用,例如:“你滚开,我再也不愿见到你。”“再不听话,我就不要你了。”“如果你不能做到,就别来见我。”像这样的话,用来训斥批评孩子,只能将孩子与父母间的情感联系隔断,使我们失去教育引导孩子的机会。
An article published in the American Psychology: Human Behavior Magazine in 1999 introduced ten successful parents’ experiences in educating their children. I think there is a lot of reference value, make a brief introduction here. First, adequate love Parents can give their children the most valuable gift is “love” - a generous and selfless love. We should try our best to make children feel we love him. No matter what serious mistakes children make, mothers should have a tolerant heart to their children. There are some bad words, it is best not to use when criticizing children, for example: “You go away, I do not want to see you again.” “No obedience, I do not want you.” “If you can not do , Do not come and see me. ”Like this, used to denounce criticism of children, only the emotional connection between children and parents cut off, so that we lose the opportunity to educate and guide children.