一个高尚的人,往往更能为别人考虑,善于控制自己的情感,在任何时候都不会伤害别人的自尊。这是一种修养、一种自持。人的一生不可能不犯错误,错误本身有时就是人生的一部分,问题在于我们如何善待错误的人和行为,给他人以理解和慰藉,帮助有过失的人恢复自信。看过一个寓言:有个猎人落难山间,被母熊所救.母熊供其吃食和住宿,临走时又斩其掌相赠。猎人走时说,十分感谢,只是你身上的气味 A noble person tends to be more considerate of others, good at controlling his emotions, and will not hurt other people’s self-esteem at any time. This is a kind of self-support. It is impossible for human beings to make no mistakes in their whole life. The mistakes themselves are sometimes part of life. The question is how we treat the wrong people and behaviors, give others understanding and comfort, and help those who have lost their lives regain their confidence. Read an allegory: there is a hunter set foot in the mountains, was bears bears the mother bear for their food and accommodation, before leaving to cut their hands and give away. Hunter said time to go, very grateful, just the smell of your body