在实行计划生育的当今中国,家长们无不望子成龙、望女成凤。为培养孩子有所长,许多家长可谓倾其所有,甚至于负债为之。但很少有家长关注自己孩子的特“短”(如在思维方式、性格、能力等诸多方面),而针对孩子特短进行必要的投入,使孩子能克服其“短”的更是凤毛麟角。 In today’s China where family planning is practiced, parents are all promising to look forward to becoming women. To foster children’s strengths, many parents have all-encompassing, even indebtedness. However, very few parents pay attention to their children’s special “short” (such as ways of thinking, character, ability and so on). However, it is very rare for the children to overcome the “shortness” by making the necessary investments.