在教育教学的过程中,我们总是能列举出那些不服管教、不思进取、令教师和家长头疼的学生。他们大多比较聪明,但无论是动之以情、晓之以理地讲大道理,还是严肃训诫,似乎都没有用。面对这样的情况,大多数教师和家长都认为无可救药了。殊不知这些消极的标签就这样无形中贴到了学生的身上。消极的标签会给人消极的暗示,在不知不觉中,人就会失去信心,放弃努力,甚至破罐子破摔。一旦发展到这样的地步,学生就会锁上自己的心门,给家长 In the process of education and teaching, we can always cite those students who are not obedient to discipline, enterprising and have headaches for teachers and parents. Most of them are clever, but it does not seem to be of any use to speaking the truths rationally and solemnly admonishing them both in their affection and in their own right. In the face of such a situation, most teachers and parents think hopeless. As everyone knows these negative labels so virtually posted to the students body. Negative labels will give people a negative hint, unwittingly, people will lose confidence, give up efforts, and even broken cans broken. Once developed to such a point, students will lock their own heart to parents