其实我一直都知道,能让我们幸福最大化的模式,就是我们三个人在一起。只是面对人生里的第一次婚姻,我和你爸爸都太理想化,都对对方期望太高,一味地去要求,去索取,不懂得感恩知足,隐忍退让。7个月没有见到你蛋蛋:好久不见,十分想念。这词好熟。13岁那年,我给转学的好朋友写信,开头也是这句。只是当年写这句时,我还有点儿得意,觉得自己好有文采,跟此刻写给你的心情完全不同。那时我对这世界的认识,也与今天完全不同。那一年,同桌问我要找什么样的男 In fact, I have always known that the model that maximizes our happiness is when all three of us are together. Only in the face of life’s first marriage, I and your father are too idealistic, all expectations of each other too high, blindly go to the request, to obtain, do not know gratitude, tolerance forbear. 7 months did not see your egg: long time no see, very miss. The term is good. At the age of thirteen, I wrote a letter to a good friend who transferred, beginning with the phrase. Just when I wrote this sentence, I was a bit proud of myself, feel good writing, with exactly the same mood to write to you at this moment. At that time, my understanding of this world is completely different from today. That year, the same table asked what kind of man I was looking for