编辑张婴音每每谈论起家庭中的亲子关系，无论是大人还是孩子，总会使用一些负面词汇———大人说孩子“不听话”、“不服管”、“不尊重父母”……孩子抱怨父母“管得太多”、“唠叨没完”、“不给我自由”……用“不和谐”、“紧张”、“对立”等来形容当今的亲子关系并不过 Editor Zhang Ying tone often talk about the parent-child relationship in the family, whether adults or children, always use some negative words --- adults say their children “disobedient”, “disobedient”, “do not respect their parents” ... children complain Parents have “too much control”, “nagging over,” “not giving me freedom.” Describing today’s paternity with “discord,” “tension,” “opposition,” etc.