又到了给孩子们撰写评语的时候。当我写完后再次翻看时,发现不少男孩的评语中,我不约而同地写下了诸如“如果你能再坚强一点……”“再多一点男子汉的气概……”之类的希望。回顾平常和他们相处的点点滴滴,从中的确能感觉到他们的娇气、软弱,甚至有明显女性化的倾向。这样的情况如果仅是个别现象倒也不足为奇,可一旦成为比较普遍的现象就不容忽视了。 It’s time to write reviews for kids. When I looked through the pages again after I finished writing, I found out that in the comments of many boys, I spontaneously wrote down such as “If you can be a little stronger ...” “A little more macho ...”. Looking back and usually get along with them bit by bit, from which can really feel their delicate, weak, and even a clear tendency of feminization. It is not surprising that such a situation is only an isolated phenomenon, but it can not be ignored once it becomes a more common phenomenon.