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1.不要把父母的意愿强加给孩子每个孩子都有自己的喜怒哀乐,即使父母,也无权要求他们事事按照大人的意愿来做,即使是为了他好。比如:你认为他该睡觉了,你一定要他把一碗饭全部吃掉,或者你一定要让他放下手里的玩具去做你要他做的事……强加的结果只能适得其反。让孩子按照自己的意愿行事,孩子不但开心、乐观,还能养成独立、有主见的个性。2.忽视孩子的无理要求遇上孩子提无理要求,或提出合理要求你也无法满足时,如果他哭闹不休,也要最大限度满足他吗?恰恰相反。对于孩子的无理要求,你一定不要满
1. Do not impose the wishes of parents on the child Every child has their own emotions, even parents, have no right to ask them to do everything in accordance with the wishes of adults, even for his good. For example, if you think he should go to bed, you must have him eaten all of a bowl of rice, or you must let him put down the toys in his hand to do the things you want him to do ... The consequences imposed are only counterproductive. Let the children act according to their own wishes, the child is not only happy, optimistic, but also develop an independent, assertive personality. 2. Ignore the child’s unreasonable demands Meet the child unreasonable demands, or make reasonable demands that you can not meet, if he is crying endlessly, but also to maximize his satisfaction with it? On the contrary. You must not be full about the child’s unreasonable demands