你可曾有过这样的经历:罚做错事的学生面壁思过,把不听话的学生推至门外,对作业错得多、考试考砸的学生大声呵斥……这样做效果如何呢?许多发人深省的案例早就告诉了我们答案——那只能是“失败、屈辱、对立和自暴自弃”。的确,正如《学习的革命》中所谈到的那样:“如果一个孩子生活在批评中,他就学会了谴责;如果一 Have you ever experienced such things as punishing the wrong student, pushing the disobedient student out to the door, the job being much more wrong, the student taking the test? The student shouts loudly ... What is the effect? Many thought-provoking cases have long informed us of the answer - it can only be ”failure, humiliation, antagonism and self-violence“. Indeed, as it is said in the ”Learning Revolution“: ”If a child lives in criticism, he learns to condemn it; if one