女儿薇薇在哈佛读书。还在上中学的时候,一天,她钻在书房里翻看了半晌我旧时的日记,出来感慨地说:“妈妈,你如今变多了,看你那个时候多上进!”我谦逊地笑着,表示这意见很有考虑的价值,心下却不以为然。一来说这话她还太嫩,二来我自觉我可以。后来是,在多次的交锋中,虽感触良多,但为母者的权威尽有,居高临下的态势亦是不变的。 Her daughter, Vivian, is studying in Harvard. When I was in middle school, she went to my study one day and looked through my old diary for a long time and said with emotion: “Mom, you are getting more now and watching you move in that time!” I smiled modestly , Said that this opinion is very considered value, my heart did not agree. She was still too tender to say this, and second, I knew I could. Later, in numerous encounters, although a lot of feelings, but for the mother’s authority, condescending posture also remains unchanged.