编辑同志:您好!我今年63岁,是一名退休教师。年轻时,追求我的青年男子很多,千挑万选我选中了他——一个其貌不扬,父母双亡,但脾气很好,对我百依百顺的机关干部。说心里话,我当时并不爱他,只是感觉只有跟他在一起时,我可以随心所欲。而且,他为人处世很妥帖,我办夹生的事他总能帮我办圆满了,对我父母和兄弟姐妹也很殷勤。所以我们家里多数人都愿意让我嫁给他。母亲原本不太同意,但考虑到我脾气不好,找个有婆婆的,很 Editor’s Comrade: Hello! I am 63 years old and a retired teacher. When I was young, I pursued a lot of young men. I picked him for the pick of a bird of prey. To be honest, I did not love him at that time, only feeling I could only do it when I was with him. Moreover, he is a very good man in his life, and he always manages to help me with my job. I am also very attentive to my parents and brothers and sisters. So most of our family are willing to let me marry him. My mother originally did not agree, but considering my bad temper, I found a mother-in-law