18岁生日这天,我让已离异5年的父母第一次以参加我成人节的名义聚到了一起。没想到父亲的一封信成了我最好的生日礼物,并且它使我对父亲多年的仇恨一点点冰雪消融,以至于我彻底理解了父亲。18岁,至少在我的一生中是个截然分明的分界线。不仅意味着我长大成人,具备了独立的民事能力,更重要的还意味着子女和父母的关系可以重新改变。 On the eighteenth birthday, I let my parents, who had been divorced for five years, come together in the name of my adult festival for the first time. I did not expect my father’s letter to be my best birthday gift, and it gave me a little bit of ice and snow on my father’s years of hatred, so much so that I understood my father thoroughly. 18 years old, at least in my life is a clear dividing line. Not only means that I grow up with independent civil capacity, more important also means that the relationship between children and parents can be changed again.