任性行为,几乎在每个孩子身上都不同程度地存在。在孩子任性时,如果家长大声呵斥,或是迁就哄骗都往往无济干事。此时,进行“冷处理”较为有效。记得女儿四岁那年,因一个不合理的要求未得满足,她大发脾气,那哭声似乎在向我们示威。我和先生态度一致,决心要帮她克服这个毛病。我们各干自己 Self-serving behavior exists to varying degrees in almost every child. When a child is self-willed, it is often not helpful for parents to shout loudly or kidnap them. At this point, the “cold treatment” is more effective. I remember her daughter was four years old, unwilling to meet an unreasonable request, she temper, that cry seems to be demonstrating to us. My husband and I have the same attitude, determined to help her overcome this problem. We all do it ourselves