当今,孩子似乎成了父母的个人档案卡,父母的成功与失败都会被记录在上面。能否把孩子养好,成了公众评价父母的主要依据。于是父母们普遍认为,自己有能力也有责任全程控制和安排孩子的生活。但专家认为,对孩子“放养”要适度。 Nowadays, children seem to be parents ’profile cards, and their parents’ successes and failures are recorded on it. Whether to keep the children well is the main basis for the public to evaluate their parents. So parents generally believe that they have the ability and responsibility to control and arrange the child’s entire life. However, experts believe that children “stocking ” should be moderate.