儿童时期的心理烙印常常会影响到一个人的一生。因此,在育儿中也有一个扬长避短的问题,需要引起家长们足够的重视。一、相貌心理。对于长相丑或美的孩子,家长有时会当着他们的面发表议论。在被父母提示后,有些孩子会对自己的相貌产生“与众不同”的自卑或自傲的异常心理。这种过早肤浅的关注是不利于孩子心理健康发育的。因此,对于长相漂亮或丑的孩子,父母应努力淡化他们的“与众不同感”。二、“毛病”心理。孩子年幼,不 Childhood psychological stigma often affects a person’s life. Therefore, there is also a weak point in parenting that needs to be given sufficient attention by parents. First, the appearance of psychology. For ugly or beautiful children, parents sometimes make statements in their face. After being prompted by their parents, some children will have a “different” sense of inferiority or pride of their own appearance. This kind of superficial concern is not conducive to children’s mental health development. Therefore, parents should strive to reduce their “sense of difference” for children who look beautiful or ugly. Second, “problems” psychology. Children are young, no