孩子的成长,就如空心菜开花的历程,这是一个漫长的积累和提升的过程。我们能做的就是要蹲下身子,仔细地观察,精心地呵护,耐心地等待。台湾著名作家林清玄写过一篇优美的散文:“看到水田边一片纯白的花,形似百合,却开得比百合花还要繁盛,姿态非常优美,我当场就被那雄浑的美震慑了。‘这是什么花?’我拉着田边的农夫问道。‘这是空心菜花呀!’老农夫说。原来空心菜可以开出这么美丽明艳的花,真是做梦也想不到。我问农夫:‘可是我也种过空心菜,怎么没有开花呢?’他说:‘一 The growth of children, like the flowering of cabbage, is a long process of accumulation and promotion. What we can do is to squat down, observe carefully, carefully care, wait patiently. Taiwan’s famous writer Lin Qingxuan wrote a beautiful essay: ”I saw a white paddy field side of the water, shaped like a lily, but also opened more prosperous than the lily, the gesture is very beautiful, I was on the spot by the magnificent beauty Shocked. ’What is this flower?’ I asked the farmer who took the field. ’This is a cauliflower!’ The old farmer said.It was originally a spinach can be opened so beautiful bright flowers, really dream can not think of .I asked Farmer: "But I also planted cabbage, why not flowering? ’He said:’ One