一位读小学五年级的孩子写了篇作文给父亲看,想叫他帮助改改。可父亲接过一看,说:“不行,文章怎么写得这么别别扭扭的?我看你像你妈,作文很差。”父亲和母亲原是高中同学,父亲自然知道母亲的底子,她外语很好,但作文较差。于是,他就在孩子面前这样说。另一个读初二的孩子,上学时经常忘记带东西,钥匙、钢笔、雨伞等多次不知去向。每次忘记,他母亲总会说:“哼,你像你爸,没记性,做事老是丢三拉四的。你爷爷年纪大了不说,你看你爸和你的几个叔叔都这样,就这么一个种,真拿你们一家没办法。”在现实生活中,这样的家教言语是经常可以听到的。有的把孩子的相貌同上一代的人联系起来,有的把动作、语言、表情等与家族成员联系起来,有的甚至还把性格、脾气、思维方式与别的家庭成员联系起来。在联系 A fifth grade primary school boy wrote an essay to his father and wanted to help him change it. But my father took a look and said: “No, the article how to write so uncomfortable? I think you like your mom, composition is poor.” “Father and mother were high school classmates, my father naturally know the mother’s foundation She has a good foreign language but poor composition. So, he said in front of children. Another child, who was a sophomore, often forgot to bring things, keys, pens, umbrellas and many more to go to school. Every time you forget, his mother always said: ”Well, you like your dad, no memory, doing things always drop three pull four. Your grandfather is not old, you see your dad and your uncle are In this way, such a species, really take your family no way. "In real life, such tutoring language is often heard. Some relate the child’s appearance to the previous generation, others relate actions, language, expressions, etc. to family members, and some even associate personality, temper, and mode of thinking with other family members. In contact