他不记得父亲这一生在子女受到挫折或得到荣誉的时候曾经以拥抱鼓舞或嘉勉他们,至于“我爱你”这三个字,这辈子是否曾经从父亲的嘴巴里冒出来过,他更始终存疑。在母亲年纪比较大的时候,他有一次以玩笑的方式试探着问她:“妈,爸爸这辈子有没有跟你说过‘我爱你’?”没想到他母亲的回答竟然是:“他?如果他跟我这样讲,我一定觉得他发疯了,不然就是醉醺醺把我当成酒家女!”不过,他倒是记得三四岁的时候,有一段时 He did not remember his father’s life inspired or hugged by embracing when their children were frustrated or honored. As for the words “I love you”, did my life ever come out of my father’s mouth? He is always suspicious. When his mother was old, he had a try to jokingly asked her: “Mom, did my father ever tell you I love you?” “I did not expect his mother’s answer turned out to be: If he told me like this, I must think he was crazy or drunk to treat me as a girl! ”However, he remembered when he was three or four years old,