经常有年轻的父母来心理咨询门诊请教医生:孩子胆小怎么办? 他们一边抱怨孩子多么胆小,一边又极力表白自己对孩子多么关心,多么爱护。看得出他们确实很着急,深怕导致孩子性格上的缺陷。佳佳的父亲在电信局工作,他向医生诉说: “我们的小佳佳今年5岁了。3岁的时候我们就发现这孩子胆子较小,这可能与我们常常在他哭的时候用老虎、狗熊等吓唬他有关系。我们注意到这一点以后,就不敢再这样吓唬他了。可不知怎的,这孩 Often young parents to counseling clinic Consult a doctor: children timid how they do? They complain about how timid the child, while trying to show how much care for their children, how much love. Can see that they really anxious, afraid of causing the child’s personality defects. Allison’s father worked at the bureau, and he told the doctor: ”Our little child is 5 years old and when we were 3 years old, we found that this child was less courageous, which may be with us often when he was crying Tiger, bear, etc. to scare him.We did not dare scare him anymore after we noticed this.Now, this kid