我经常觉得“继母”或者“继父”是人们加在那些进入一个已经有孩子的男人或者女人的家庭里的女人或者男人身上的身份标签。我们这样称呼他们,是因为我们想用一个称呼去区别他们。毋庸置疑,这个称呼侧重在“继”字上,人们想当然地认为,在这些人身上经常感受不到“父”或者“母? I often think that “stepmother” or “stepfather” is an identification tag added to a woman or man who enters a family home to a man or woman who already has a child. We call them this way because we want to differentiate them from one another. Needless to say, this title focuses on the word “following”, people take it for granted that in these people often do not feel the “father” or "mother?