问:育儿书上说孩子要多抱才会有安全感、亲子关系才亲密,所以儿子虽已会走了,出门时我还时常抱着。可现在他3岁多了还经常吵着要抱,18公斤的重量实在令我吃不消,怎样做他才肯自己走路呢?答:小婴儿的确需要通过“抱”来获得安全、舒适与满足。但你忽略了不同年龄孩子对抱有不同 Q: The parenting book says that children should have more sense of security and parent-child relationship. Therefore, although my son is gone, I still often hold it when I go out. But now that he is more than 3 years old, he still often clamored for a hug. The weight of 18 kilograms really made me feel overwhelmed. How can we help him walk? A: The little baby really needs safety through the “hug” for safety, comfort and satisfaction. But you ignore the children of different ages have different