间接言语行为是人们在日常生活中经常使用的用来表达礼貌的一种方式,它是一种间接的、维护和谐关系的礼貌形式。但是由于性别、社会关系、文化和个人等因素的影响,人们对间接言语行为的使用和理解也会有一定的差异,从而影响到间接言语行为的礼貌性。本文通过间接言语行为和礼貌的联系,探讨影响两者之间关系的因素。 Indirect speech act is a kind of way that people often use in daily life to express politeness. It is an indirect polite form that maintains harmonious relationship. However, due to the influence of gender, social relations, culture and personal factors, there will be some differences in the use and understanding of indirect speech acts, which will affect the politeness of indirect speech act. This article explores the factors influencing the relationship between the two through indirect verbal behavior and politeness.