在遇到挫折的时候,我经常听到身边的朋友们说“我不行”之类的话。同样是朝气蓬勃的脸,可他们那灰暗的眼神却分明告诉我:他们退缩了,就像还没有上战场就背起枪急忙往回赶的逃兵。记得哲学家阿拜曾经说过:“没有不曾经历过磨难的人,只有弱者才会感 In the face of setbacks, I often hear friends around me say “I can’t”. It was also a vibrant face, but their dark eyes told me clearly: They flinched, like deserters who had rushed back with their guns when they were not on the battlefield. I remember that the philosopher Abai once said: "There is no person who has never experienced an ordeal, only the weak will feel it.