我刚到加拿大时,儿子怕我用传统的“棍棒之下出孝子”的方法对付孙子,他就告诫我说:“加拿大人认为孩子是世界的未来、人类的希望,因此,家庭、社会都以孩子为中心,一切为了孩子,让孩子自主发展,没人会训斥、打骂孩子的。”经过一段时间的观察,我发现事实确如儿子所说。当然,我也不可能用老办法来对待孙子了。在旅加的那段日子里,儿子因忙于搞科研,四岁的孙 When I first arrived in Canada, my son was afraid that I would deal with the grandson in the traditional way of “being a cousin under a stick.” He warned me: “Canadians think that children are the future of the world and the hope of mankind. Therefore, the family and the community With children as the center, all for the children, let the children develop independently, no one will reprimand, scolding children. ”After a period of observation, I found the truth as the son said. Of course, I can not treat the grandson with the old method. During the days of Brigaga, his son was busy with scientific research and was four years old