对于青春期爱较劲的孩子,大人千万别较劲,最好的办法就是给予理解和等待。当了多年的中学教师,我知道初中的孩子确实是一个矛盾的结合体,难管了,这是因为经历青春期的孩子成人的感觉和自我独立意识明显增强,这时候他们需要的是自我的空间和大人的理解。 For adolescent love children, adults do not rival, the best way is to give understanding and waiting. When I was a middle school teacher for many years, I knew that children in junior high school were indeed a paradoxical combination that was difficult to manage. This is because adults who experience adolescence have a marked increase in their sense of adult and self-independence. At this time, they need self-space And adult understanding.