“君子”一词最早出现在《易经》当中,又被儒家学派不断完善,成为中国人的道德典范。君子有真假之分:真君子为人坦率,做事诚实,重信用讲义气;假君子恰恰相反,表面装好人,背地里做坏事。近日,某机构在网上进行调查,很大一部分人直言当下社会“君子”少见。其中,不少家长不希望孩子成为君子,原因是“当君子吃亏”。你想成为君子吗?怎样才算是君子?做君子真会吃亏吗?刘鹏(高一学生):我觉得做君子挺傻的,现在都 “Gentleman ” first appeared in the “Book of Changes”, but also by the Confucian school constantly improve, become the Chinese moral model. A gentleman has the distinction between true and false: true gentleman is honest, honest and trustworthy, faithful; the other hand, on the contrary, the surface is filled with people, doing bad things behind. Recently, an agency in the online survey, a large part of people say that the immediate community “gentleman ” rare. Among them, many parents do not want children to become gentlemen, because “When a gentleman to lose.” You want to be a gentleman? How to be a gentleman? Do gentlemen really suffer? Liu Peng (a freshman): I think gentleman stupid, and now are