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不少家长都有这样的感受:一件价格昂贵的玩具,没买时,孩子拼命想要;刚买回家时,孩子把它当宝贝;可没几天,孩子就玩腻了,便不再问津。造成这样一种结果的原因之一,就是父母没有掌握满足孩子要求的缓冲效应。从心理学角度看,欲望的满足程度与期待心情的缓急成正比,越是难以得到的东西,就越想得到。随着期待心理的强化,其满足的程度也就随之加深。同样,欲望的满足程度,与珍惜所获得结果的程度也成正比。俗话说
Many parents have this feeling: a expensive toy, did not buy, the children desperately want; just bought home, the child treats it as a baby; within a few days, the child is tired, not Ask again. One of the reasons for such a result is that parents do not have the cushioning effect of meeting children’s needs. From a psychological point of view, the degree of desire to meet the expectations and mood is proportional to the urgency, the more difficult to get things, the more you want to get. With the expectation of psychological strengthening, the degree of satisfaction will also deepen. In the same way, the degree of satisfaction of desire is proportional to the extent to which the results obtained are cherished. As the saying goes