“跟孩子打交道,要尊重他、倾听他、向他学习,让他有成就感,他就愿意和你在一起。”这是卢勤的儿童观,也是她做“知心姐姐”的秘诀。“知心姐姐,我们家孩子三岁九个月,在幼儿园总被老师批评专注力不够……”“我的孩子四岁半了,爱玩电脑,我给他限时,不管用。我想问问知心姐姐,怎么让孩子心甘情愿地听话?”在北京某网站举办的一场有关家庭教育的讲座中,举手提问的大多是幼儿的家长。端坐在 “Deal with the child, respect him, listen to him, learn from him, make him a sense of accomplishment, he is willing to be with you.” This is Lu Qin’s view of children, but also her The secret. “Intimate sister, our children three years and nine months old, in kindergarten teachers are always criticized for lack of concentration ... ” “” my child is four and a half, love to play computer, I give him time limit, no matter .I Want to ask intimate sister, how to let the children willingly obedient? "In a Beijing hosted a webinar on family education seminars, most of the hands raising questions are children’s parents. Sitting side