《涅盘经》云:“夫盛者必衰,合会者别离。”《成佛之道》云:“合会要当离,有生无不死。”人生在世,或是父母儿女,或是夫妇的会合,恩爱亲情,互相扶助,洋溢着家庭的温暖。但是,亲爱的眷属变成冤家,夫妻反目、兄弟阋墙,乃是屡见不鲜之事;何况,一旦生离死别到来,抛下父母,丢弃妻儿,孤苦凄惶的各奔前程,谁还能顾得了谁呢?一个学佛的人,对于眷属要能放得下。有些老人,不堪于晚年的寂寞,常要 “Nirvana” said: “husband and wife will decline, the union will not leave.” “” The Road to Buddhism “cloud: ” co-ordination to be away, life and death. "Life is alive, or parents Children, or couples meet, love affection, mutual assistance, filled with family warmth. However, it is not uncommon for my dear dependents to turn into enemies and husbands and husbands to oppose each other and brother to the wall. Moreover, whoever cares about their own future when they leave their parents and discard their wives and children? A Buddha who, for the dependents should be able to let go. Some seniors are not as lonely as they are in their later years