美国的人与人之间的关系是冷还是暖?我见到的有关此类的报道有不少,有些甚至大相径庭。我的见闻和经历也许可以反映其中的一个侧面。 我去波士顿是在洛杉矶入的关。入关时是接受一位关员的检查,他检查我的护照时一言不发,脸上也看不出有什么特别的表情,在反复检查良久,似乎确认了护照是真的时,他微笑着问我为什么家属没有一道来美。我回答原因后他点点头,说了声祝你好运。就这样我算真的准许进入美国了,可关员问我的话与我学英语情景会话时在海关的对话竟对不上号。后来,无论在医院,或在其他地方碰到美国人,总要问些关于我妻子、孩子的情况。当我把她 Are relations between people in the United States cold or warm? I have seen many reports on this category, some even very different. My knowledge and experience may reflect one aspect of this. I went to Boston and got off in Los Angeles. When entering the customs is to accept the inspection of a customs officer, he checked my passport without a word, his face can not see any special expression, after repeated inspections for a long time, it seems confirmed that the passport is real when he Smiling and asked me why my family did not come together. After I answered the question, he nodded and said good luck. In this way, I am really allowed to enter the United States. However, if the Commissioner asked me anything about the dialogue with the Customs when I learned the English scenario, Later, whether in the hospital, or meet other Americans, always ask about my wife, children. When I take her