不少父母抱怨自己的孩子太任性。有的家长甚至说:“我的孩子是天生的拧种,真没办法。”就绝大多数孩子来说,任性不会是天生的毛病。那么,孩子任性是怎样造成的呢?可能有以下原因。其一,模仿别人的结果。在家庭里或亲友当中有人任性。孩子曾不止一次亲眼看到任性的表现,而且可能得到了不错的结果,于是孩子就会模仿, Many parents complain that their children are too self-willed. Some parents even said: “My child is a natural twist, and I can not do it.” For most children, waywardness is not a natural problem. So, what is the cause of children’s waywardness? There may be the following reasons. First, imitate the results of others. Somebody in the family or relatives is wayward. The child has seen his wayward performance on more than one occasion, and may have had good results, so the child will imitate,