孩子,尤其是独生子女因为处在一种特殊的养育环境中,所以,很容易养成任性的坏习惯。任性的过程往往是:当孩子有某种愿望得不到满足时,就表现为哭闹。而家长为了使其哭闹,便依从了他。次数多了,就在孩子的大脑皮层中建立了“条件反射”,只要不满意,就以各种方式来要挟父母,以达到自己的目的。如果家长教育不得法,再加上溺爱、放纵和迁就,最终 Because children, especially the only child, are in a special kind of parenting environment, it is easy to develop self-willed bad habits. The process of self-willed is often: when the child has a certain desire can not be met, it is expressed as crying. The parents obeyed him in order to make him cry. More often, “conditioned reflexes” have been established in the child’s cerebral cortex, wherever he or she is dissatisfied, he or she is threatened with parents in various ways to achieve his or her own purpose. If parents fail to teach the law, coupled with spoiled, indulgent and accommodation, eventually